The thing is that there are some people who are very put off by the "calculated" approach — not so much the fact that the person is looking for sociableness, but the way that they end up coming across while in pursuit of their goal. You (Abi) may well be happier in the social circles that aren't possible to reach with hairyears' approach.
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Date: 2008-03-18 04:42 pm (UTC)