Abigail Brady

ummm.... if you decide you want to find this hypothetical girl, you need to increase your chances by going to places where such girls are rumoured to exist. if you decide you don't like those places, then you have to accept your chances are reduced (but still exist) if you want, for instance, to just hang out at the Pembury, it is not widely famed for being the place where available girls pick up available girls with cute freckles... but you do still meet new people there. so it's possible. if i was looking where would i go? not that i've made much effort to hunt out the london ladies, but one place springs to mind - Smack Club. it moves around, last i went it was at egg, i think it was end of 2006 so not really sure what it's up to now. but you arrive and it's a bit like - where are all these women usually? but it's not intimidatingly dyke. just a very very high proportion of women. something less overtly sexual - the Dolly Rockers events are a really good atmosphere, friendly, i would go there if i was looking. again, i don't keep up. but they do retro DJ and live music nights and all-dayers. all-dayers are nice - less pressure and usually more areas to just chat with people.
i don't do chatting up well either - i like to just converse.
i need to work but i intend to reply to other stuff below.