I'm not sure I'm really qualified to give advice, but it might be an idea to sort of spread the word via your social network that you are looking for a partner (not necessarily 'on the pull', but more 'casually searching'). That way, people won't already assume that you already have a partner.
It might also be a good idea to let people know what kind of partner you want (as someone said before, you don't come across as definitely gay or straight). If you want a woman, bear in mind that many women are straight so this will affect your number of available partners. (However you may find that many straight women are willing to experiment).
Either way, don't give up. You're certain to find your perfect person, and you're doing exactly the right thing by socialising lots.
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Date: 2008-03-17 11:24 pm (UTC)It might also be a good idea to let people know what kind of partner you want (as someone said before, you don't come across as definitely gay or straight). If you want a woman, bear in mind that many women are straight so this will affect your number of available partners. (However you may find that many straight women are willing to experiment).
Either way, don't give up. You're certain to find your perfect person, and you're doing exactly the right thing by socialising lots.