Oh, I am not worried by people not being my friends. That sort of thing I can cope with well enough. It's just, if I meet more people, and I meet more people I am interested in, I also meet more people who spurn me when I tell them that. And anyway, if by some strange sequence of events I did have a relationship with someone - can you imagine what I would be like were I to be dumped? Maybe it is best just to stay out.