Well, hopefully this post counts as that! :)

This is a good point as to whether I trigger people's gaydars or not. I should ask people. There do seem to be an awful lot of bisexual (and indeed poly) people in my social circle at the moment, so finding people who are theoretically obtainable is not the hard part. (it'd maybe be nice to have a crush on someone absolutely unobtainable, because then I wouldn't need to worry about what to do with it, but this has not yet happened).