(The link would be... if I remember correctly, someone who lived with a direct relative of yours when she was doing her undergrad in DeMontford - at least I think it was your nick on IRC that she mentioned, 'twas about 2001 when she mentioned it to me)
Anywho, if you want to reframe the difference between the set A people and the set B people, you can just say that the people in set A have more practice. The main thing I was thinking of was confidence - it's like another little trick we have to do in general society, we need to walk around with an air of "There's nothing wrong with me" because the moment you wander around thinking "There's something wrong with me" people pick up on it, and begin to wonder what's wrong. So, to me, it seems to be mostly a trick of walking around with an "approved" mark on your appearance to the outside world.
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Anywho, if you want to reframe the difference between the set A people and the set B people, you can just say that the people in set A have more practice. The main thing I was thinking of was confidence - it's like another little trick we have to do in general society, we need to walk around with an air of "There's nothing wrong with me" because the moment you wander around thinking "There's something wrong with me" people pick up on it, and begin to wonder what's wrong. So, to me, it seems to be mostly a trick of walking around with an "approved" mark on your appearance to the outside world.
Does that make any sense?